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[ETA] I log ALL IPs that hit my journal, be it the user info page, or individual posts. It's for a benign reason (tracking actual hit counts, tracking spam), but let me state clearly: THE PEOPLE WHO ACCUSE ME OF BULLYING (and who constantly wave the flag of "don't like it? Don't read it.") read my journal. I have the IP proof. Let that serve as a "warning" for those who don't want to be associated with me. :)

I am not a bully. [shakes jowls like Nixon] I am getting really sick and tired of whiny people claiming that women with opinions are bullies. IT IS NOT BULLYING TO STATE AN OPINION ON THINGS, and shame on you who would try and get people to think that way.

Shame on you. For being weak enough to cower behind others and go with the flow. Shame on you for turning something horrible (say, oh, let me just pull something out of the air.... RAPE.) into something as casual as a comment about a hobby you enjoy. I think I'll turn the word rape into something meaningless: when I get into my car, I rape it. I'm going to rape the milk into the fridge. I raped my knee when I conked it on the table leg. Or maybe NOT. As a person that was actually raped, FUCK YOU. Oh, but first I was kidnapped, bound, almost taken out of the country, then raped. But because I am a strong woman (or is that a bully? I can't remember which) I beat the ever-loving shit out of my attacker when he was finished. I then took his wallet and got me a ticket home. Then I got to face my female boss who looked disapprovingly at me and said WITH NO IRONY: "You seem to have a lot of drama in your life. This needs to change if you're going to continue working here."

*sucks teeth*

I've been slowly defriended over the past few days by people who obviously feel that I'm a bully. Go right on ahead and get with your getting. Hell, anyone on the fence about me? Move along, you won't hurt my feelings, and maybe we'll both heave a sigh of relief. Jesus fucking Christ, we are talking about stories of Angel being made out of moss and bark and growing a dick for Spike. Because my eyes pop out of my head and I boggle at that being LAUDED, I'm a fucking bully? Ahahahahahaha!

Here's my final thought: you're embarrassed about being caught on the side of the Angel rape Willow with soap/Angel is a bark man and maybe has tentacles/a mildly retarded boxer Angel wants to fuck a crippled Spike/(seahorses? Were there seahorses, or was that a crack!fic I wrote? Huh)/fic and you have to defend it, so you call out the people who don't happen to like something (and again: OPINIONS. Stated in their own journals) as being mean and horrible. <-- actual word used. I could be wrong. Feel free to (continue) to mention in your own world how wrong I am. I really couldn't care less, my life isn't changed by people not liking me on the fucking INTERNET.

But people who continue to demean women for HAVING OPINIONS and the STRENGTH TO STATE THEM are in the wrong. Period. And if you think it's not a big deal to devalue those who have been raped? YOU ARE WRONG. Shame on you. Joss says so. And I love Lynne.

THE END. (from me. Never again will I address this foolishness.)

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elfgirl
May. 21st, 2007 01:37 pm (UTC)
::defriends you forever::

(...where 'defriend' means CLINGS TO YOU OMG::

Why do I have the feeling that I should be sorta glad I haven't had much time for LJ lately?
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 01:40 pm (UTC)
YOU ARE A FRIEND OF JOY AND WONDER AND JOYMENT.

Dude, your blood pressure will thank you for having been gone. <3 <3 <3 U.
soundingsea
May. 21st, 2007 01:44 pm (UTC)
::clings to you::

People defriend you for being you? Good riddance.
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 01:48 pm (UTC)
Oh, yeah. I'm a bad, bad person, didn't you know? Be careful, as my stink might get on you. *eyeroll*

And I'm ALL about thinning the herd. People don't like me? No worries. I don't like everyone, either.
ladycat777
May. 21st, 2007 01:59 pm (UTC)
Oh yes. You're *such* a bully. Because someone who doesn't read your journal (supposedly) and doesn't interact with you (although she seems to have minions who do that for her) thinks you're a bully.

Wah, wah, wah. Welcome to life people, not everybody likes you and sometimes, they say that out loud.

I'm going back to SGA. At least there we wank about thinks that, oh, have at least some significance? With people who are not quite so stupid?
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:03 pm (UTC)
*knocks your block off* Oh, but here's the thing: they DO read my journal. I need to add an ETA... I log EVERY SINGLE IP that hits my journal. Be it an entry, my user info page... They all go into a log file. (I had installed that bug because I was getting spammed by some ad spam and anonymous shit heads.)

So I can see every morning who has hit my journal. And they read. They click. I love the "don't like it, don't read it!" mindset not applying to them. (Unless, as I mentioned to Dovil, I'm to assume they LIKE my journal? They just don't want to admit it?)

I'm sticking with my normal blogging. Jesus we're talking about BLOGGING, you know? Get thicker skin, people. It's freaking BINARY.
marenfic
May. 21st, 2007 02:01 pm (UTC)
You are so mean. When are you going to be here to bully me in person? My toes need to be bullied into having a pedicure, I can promise you.
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:04 pm (UTC)
*bullies some freaking burgundy on those toes and scares the roughness off your heels*

I'm almost positive it's the weekend after this coming one. WHOO and a HOO.
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tabaqui
May. 21st, 2007 02:04 pm (UTC)
HA!
:)

Hi.
I wonder what that 'these people friended you/unfriended you' page will say if i go look. Do i care? I really don't think so.

Wow - *kidnapped*? Jayzus, dude. But yayayay for the beating up and the wallet appropriation. Yay!

It's possible i should friend you. Why haven't i? Hrmmmmmmm...
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:08 pm (UTC)
Well, it's only a handful so far. But as this STOOPID "WANK" is cyclical, I tend to drop off several everytime it surfaces. Because there are loads of private emails/posts that talk about how horrible I am in person/online.

I say go on and with my blessing. Don't like me? DON'T READ ME. It's simple. (Unless they love to read it, so *shrug*)

Yeah - I was 19, it was a jilted lover, too. I'm small, but wiry. :D

You haven't friended me because I AM EVIL. :D *squish*
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janedavitt
May. 21st, 2007 02:05 pm (UTC)
::hugs you:; I'm here. Going nowhere. :;more hugs::
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:09 pm (UTC)
Right back at you, Jane. *squishes you all up*
leighm
May. 21st, 2007 02:07 pm (UTC)
Jesus, people.

It's your journal, gives you free rein to whatever you want to express.

I'm sorry about that. I think you have a pretty intelligent journal actually:)
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:10 pm (UTC)
Apparently you're not allowed to state your own opinion in your journal if it has opinions that go against what someone else thinks. (Someone better tell those critics and humorists to cut it out.)

Well, thank you. I can't say that it's true for every post, but heh. :D
fireflykiwi
May. 21st, 2007 02:11 pm (UTC)
FYI, your first link (You're Wrong) and the last link are exactly the same....

Boy does crap happen while I am gone....
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:13 pm (UTC)
Yeah, I know. I'm making a point to get people over there. :)
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xochitl42
May. 21st, 2007 02:12 pm (UTC)
[[[hugs.]]]

Wish I could say somethign more useful.

[[[hugs again]]]
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:14 pm (UTC)
Shoot, I'll take some hugs! Awww, your icon of AWESOMENESS.

*hugs you loads, too*
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ann1962
May. 21st, 2007 02:15 pm (UTC)
Not going anywhere either. I am constantly amazed by people. I got defriended the other day because I commented on what I thought should happen to child molesters. I had just found out that a friend's son was approached by a man looking for his puppy. I was furious. But the reality of that fury wasn't enough I guess. The reality of kids getting hurt wasn't enough. Still boggled by that.
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:21 pm (UTC)
WHAT?!?

Well, I can safely say (without even getting to the bottom of what the other person was thinking) that you're better off without that person on your flist, you know? CHILD MOLESTERS. Oooh, I have NO sympathy for them. NONE.
violethamster
May. 21st, 2007 02:17 pm (UTC)
I still love you. I'd friend you extra times.

You know damn well these same people wouldn't be getting up in arms if anyone offered an opinion that the fic of Fanbrat XYZ on ff.net was out of character. What about if someone voices the opinion that Season 7 of BtVS wasn't their favorite? Are they bullying Joss?

And I'm saying this as someone who wibbles and goes "OMG, did I have any weeping cocks in my fic?" whenever someone says "OMG I hate weeping cocks!" But the last thing I'd ever do would be to demand that no one express opinions on writing because my delicate flowerness might be wilted. (I just, you know, take pills for that. It's my personal problem, not anyone else's.)
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:24 pm (UTC)
I still love you, too. Dude, you seriously brighten my flist. <3

"Are they bullying Joss?" Ahahahahahahahaha. YOU ARE SO WONDERFUL. And you know, I personally don't mind the "I hate weeping cocks [insert opinion here]" posts because I can go back through my fics and see if it's something bad, etc. I personally keep some of my older fics on my hard drive to remind me that I used to write OOC fics myself. And then I GOT BETTER. (Let's hope.)

(Oooh, and I've been defriended for critiquing my OWN fics! SERIOUSLY.)
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aimeelicious
May. 21st, 2007 02:17 pm (UTC)
Uh, I've kind of missed most of this wank. THANK FUCK!! OMG Stoney, whatthefuckever is what I say to these people. One of my favourite things about you is your willingness to lay it on the line. Good riddance if someone doesn't appreciate that all-too-rare trait.

*makes you a morning mojito*
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:25 pm (UTC)
Mmmmmm. *gulps, chomps on the mint*

Yeah, be glad you missed the wank. It was blood pressure raising. And apparently my willingness to state how I feel about things is what has me labeled as a bitch. (And someone said they would rather mutilate themselves than be in the same room as me, and MEANT IT.) I'm fine in my world without them, to be sure.

*SQUISH*
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harmonyfb
May. 21st, 2007 02:29 pm (UTC)
In response to those who brand you a big MEANIE:
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:32 pm (UTC)
*cracks the hell up*

Oh, HARM. You met me: didn't I try and shove you?

In conclusion: <3
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lusciousxander
May. 21st, 2007 02:51 pm (UTC)
Hi Stoney :) I enjoy reading your stuff, and lately I'm in a Scrubs mood, so I'm lurking your LJ for those Scrubs ficlets you wrote awhile ago. That when I saw your post.

Yesterday, I heard that Sexymermaid had been bullied by some LJ users, I didn't even understand what that meant (I'm a big lurker, but not big on commenting unless it's fanfic/BtVS related) except I replied that it was weird that she was being bullied and that's good for that person to defriend those bullies. Whatever they did, it must have been awful -> thrown back by the usage of the word 'bully'.

Now I understand you criticized her fic, which in no way means bullying. Criticizing a work of fiction, whether harsh or light is not bullying or *deep frown* rape. I must say that I know nothing about what happened to be a good judge, but throwing words like 'bullying' or 'rape' like that is very insulting, especially when we're talking about fanfic here, this comes from a person who came to the world because her mother was raped.

Anyway, I hope things turn out for the best in the end. :)


stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 02:59 pm (UTC)
Hello!

And we are like minded when it comes to using the words "bullying" and "rape." And I'll save you the trouble and link you to what I'm being accused of. (Feel free to ignore if you'd like to avoid the whole thing. I certainly won't mind.)

My first instance of "bullying." (You might notice the distinct lack of naming people at my end.)
My "critiquing" of her fic" - and honestly, I had no idea it was SM's fic.

My heart goes out to your mom, and my fist in the air at her strength. And my life is chugging on as normal. Honestly, I'm a pretty positive, happy-go-lucky person.
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knotted_rose
May. 21st, 2007 02:54 pm (UTC)
I missed most of the wank -- don't really care -- just wanted to say that I think you rock and I'm glad you have opinions and that you share them. As well as bring the funny, because, dude, we *always* need more bad-assed funny women. I'm proud to have you on my FL.
stoney321
May. 21st, 2007 03:01 pm (UTC)
Yep, don't bother. It's full of eyerolling. And I appreciate your compliment, there. We DO need more bad ass funny women! Now where's the Faith as a Stand Up Comedian fic? :D
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