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Bullet points for the busy

  • It is dancetomato's birthday! Oh, DT, you are one of those people online that makes me happy knowing you're alive. Keep having birthdays, please. <3 <3

  • I want to reiterate the purpose of Hey, Don't Judge Me: fannish love. If you want to make fun of shows or bitch about how horrible something has become, that's what ONTD and TWoP are for, not Hey, Don't Judge Me. Creepy fannishness (as in, if one thing doesn't go how I like with X character, I am going to post 1000 words on why I hate the show and everything about it) isn't tolerated. Character bashing isn't tolerated (Well, Will Schuester being inappropriate is okay to talk about because come the hell on.) I recently had to tell someone in comments that if they felt a certain way - which they're entitled to feel, of course - then they should a) maybe stop watching the show (Southland) and b) stop commenting on my site.

    Bad PR? I don't care. I want there to be ONE PLACE ON THE INTERNET where people can be happy with shameless love for something. There's no judgement for whatever you love - it's in the title of the URL for crying out loud.

  • A girlfriend needs my help today, so I'm running out the door for a bit, then it's off to the school with The Mr. to put the smack down on the school for their handling of yesterday's situation. I said this earlier, but if you hear a sonic boom, that's what it is from. :)

  • I am working on not using two spaces after a period. It's not easy. [/learned on actual typewriters OMG]

  • flaming_muse wrote a super sweet (and heart-achy) episode tag fic for The Spanish Teacher (Glee 3.12) and you should read it: Feelings. I haven't steered you wrong yet, have I? Exactly.

  • I pulled a muscle in my neck so badly that I can't turn my head. Muscle relaxers and hot tubbing are in my future. Mind, I'm not complaining about that.


FRIDAY ZOMG. Hoorays! (And THIS made me laugh - as I say there - until snot-streams waterfall'd off my face. SO NSFW. - the audio, not the image.)

THE TALK WITH THE SCHOOL re: MY CHILD AND SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

The Mr. cut right to the chase after the handshake. The principal hadn't even sat down when he said, "I feel that you and the Coach are enabling sexual harassment."

The counselor (who knows us from our older two kids) popped in and asked if she could sit in and record the meeting. YES, YES YOU CAN.

After the Mr. laid out why our daughter shouldn't have been punished for defending herself, and why it was wrong for the boys to go unpunished, the principal blinked a bit and said, "You're absolutely right. We didn't get all of the information. Emily seemed quite mortified to be in trouble--"

"Because she's never been in trouble before, she's a lovely young lady," the counselor interjected. <3

"Right," Principal nodded. "So now that we have further information from you - (I filled her in on the actual noises made, etc.) - we can address this with the boys and the coach to make sure this sort of thing doesn't happen again."

Blah blah blah, she learned that she didn't actually know Emily, the counselor came around and gave us both huge hugs and asked if we would tell #2 and The Boy hello from her and how much she misses them, and the new Principal watched all of this very thoughtfully. Yeah, we're not asshole that ignore our kids' education. We just haven't had to come to the school this year because our kid is such a non-trouble maker/good student with her head down.

So. She shook our hands, her eyes very wide with the Mr. (who can be very imposing, I must say - he exudes authority, rawr) and all manner of assurances were made that she'll keep her eye out on our daughter and how wonderful it is that we teach our kids to stand up for themselves, etc.

Long story short: I'm satisfied. :) (And the office girls came out to say Hi to us, too. We're good citizens, damn it. We've been with this elementary since the year it opened for crying out loud.)

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mpoetess
Feb. 17th, 2012 02:48 pm (UTC)
There had damn well better be an update on EPIC SMACKDOWN later, ladycakes!

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stoney321
Feb. 17th, 2012 04:23 pm (UTC)
DONE.
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kuzu_no_ha
Feb. 17th, 2012 03:07 pm (UTC)
I miss typewriters sometimes, but not correcting mistakes. I have a hard time not doing two spaces.
stoney321
Feb. 17th, 2012 04:24 pm (UTC)
Oh my god, how awful was it to correct a mistake? I had a part time job typing invoices in triplicate on typewriters, and you couldn't White Out over a mistake in that case. GAH.

I had to backspace over the extra space I put in the paragraph above. It's hard because the comment window is Courier, but it displays in Arial on my screen. KERNING OMG.
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stoney321
Feb. 17th, 2012 04:26 pm (UTC)
Gah, ME, TOO. Two after a full stop for me, too, and it's because we typed in Courier - everything is equal so you needed the visual of a bigger space. I'm trying to force myself into it, and it's so hard. I never think when I type - my fingers have been trained for years! Boo.

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stoney321
Feb. 17th, 2012 05:09 pm (UTC)
But you LOVE THE SHOW. That's the difference. It's okay to be a fan of something and want an aspect to be different, etc., but character bashing (like the chick on Southland's comments - she's done it for two or three recaps now) is TOTALLY DIFFERENT.

I mean, I hated on The Situation in the Jersey SHore recaps. Because he deserved it. I still loved the show/everyone else. THAT IS OKAY, SAM. <3
tabaqui
Feb. 17th, 2012 05:05 pm (UTC)
Good to hear the principal didn't try to twist it around or play it down. Sucks that she wasn't paying attention and getting the full story *yesterday*. But good on you guys.

And re: your comments up there - when you put a period in, you double-space after. That is all. I don't care what the internetz says - one stop is not *enough*. It looks weird and crowds everything.
stoney321
Feb. 17th, 2012 05:12 pm (UTC)
Oh, if she had tried, we would have shut that down fast. There's a reason my husband has been zooming up the ladder at his job - he doesn't take shit from anyone and is charming enough to not piss people off when he pwns them. :D

Well, every single typesetter in the world is going to disagree with you. :D The only reason the double space after a period was added was when typing as a profession became widespread in the 50s. Before that, the rule (for when typewriters were invented) was one space. Now that people use fonts that aren't mono-spaced, there's no reason for the double space after the period. I'm not the one making the rules, I'm just trying to follow them.

(Do you know that your comment appears with only one space after a period? And it looks fine. If it was in Courier or another mono-spaced font, it wouldn't, I agree.)
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bitchygrrl
Feb. 17th, 2012 05:31 pm (UTC)
Good to hear the prnicipal didn't try to play it off as no big deal. I hope this will be the end of it and those boys will be punished.
flaming_muse
Feb. 17th, 2012 06:05 pm (UTC)
Meh, I use two spaces. Sure, html strips it, but that's how I was taught. I like how it looks; it's easier for me to read. Plus, I'm a dinosaur. Rawr.

ETA: I AM SO HAPPY WITH YOUR ETA.

Edited at 2012-02-17 06:07 pm (UTC)
menomegirl
Feb. 17th, 2012 07:02 pm (UTC)
I don't think that's Bad PR. It's your place, your rules. People should follow them.

Yay! for the principal seeing reason. But it would have been nice if they'd gotten the whole story *before* castigating your daughter. Hopefully, they learned some kind of lesson from this.
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cat_eyed_fox
Feb. 17th, 2012 07:28 pm (UTC)
right?! I got in trouble a few times in elementary school and every time *everyone* included in the altercation was brought in. And we each told our side of the story to the principle by ourselves, and then the principle mediated the problem all together. My parents were never really included in it because it was never a big enough deal. This includes the time I attempted to "strangle" my best friend for being a dick about the monkey bars. No means no, Graham.
Course I did go to a hippy school, but again the emphasis was always a mediation and conflict resolution type thing instead of a punishment.
mumsisdaughter
Feb. 17th, 2012 11:13 pm (UTC)
Good for you and yours and the counsellor and the office girls et al! I hope you are informed about the follow up with the boys, and their parents had better be called in! The Principal has some stinky-bud-nipping to do with those boys or they'll think they have carte-blanche to do it again.
dancetomato
Feb. 18th, 2012 01:24 am (UTC)
GO you and the RAWR Mr.! You are great parents.

Thank you so much for the birthday wishes!! Is it wrong that I was all, "Look at me, I'm before the bullet points! *\o/*?

I have to learn the spaces thing because I can't do it on my doctoral thesis. It's going to be hard, yo.

I would massage your neck, but muscle relaxers and hot tub win.

*smishes*
harmonyfb
Feb. 18th, 2012 01:36 am (UTC)
You GO, Mama. Maybe next time she'll trouble to find out what's going on before she metes out punishment.

::fistbump::
lynnenne
Feb. 18th, 2012 03:38 am (UTC)
I'm very glad the principal saw sense. Good on you for demanding justice for your daughter.
cdvla313
Feb. 18th, 2012 07:24 am (UTC)
Wait, why aren't we supposed to put two spaces after the end of a sentence on the internet? Just because it's the internet doesn't mean the laws of grammar are completely invalid, if one chooses not to type like they forgot vowels exist.
stoney321
Feb. 18th, 2012 03:39 pm (UTC)
tabaqui is the one that brought up the internet. This is how we should be typing everywhere. No one types on 50s-era typewriters anymore, which was when the "One space after a period" rule was bent to allow for new typists in the work force.

But every typesetter/editor I've know or read has gone off on a rant about how it's wrong wrong wrong and they have to remove the extra space. So, I'm trying to get myself out of the habit.
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zyrya
Feb. 19th, 2012 05:34 am (UTC)
Emily has learned a hard but valubale lesson with this one.

1. Stand up for yourself.
2. Keep standing up for yourself after standing up for yourself has made things very difficult and you have been villainised (I just made that up) and accused of trouble-making.
3. Her parents are ALL the awesomes!
4. Other people are butts, and this is why sometimes Mummy drinks.
stoney321
Feb. 19th, 2012 03:35 pm (UTC)
All of these are true, with extra YES for #4, but you assumed that already.

It was a very satisfactory outcome, I must say. (Even though I wish I hadn't needed to have the discussion in the first place.)
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